Each has its pros and cons, and none is right for everyone.
We can put ourselves in a position to meet other Christians by looking for a church singles group.
We may want to volunteer for a cause we care about or join other groups, being sure that we are doing it because we enjoy it, not just because we want to meet as many potential mates as possible.
Question: "Should a Christian use a Christian dating service to find a spouse?
" Answer: The Bible doesn’t talk about dating services.
In fact, it doesn’t even tell us how to “date” or “court,” or whatever term we use for the process we use to get to know a potential mate.